Perhaps people do change for the worse after marriage. If people can't resolve their differences prior to marriage, what makes you think they can do so after they've tied the knot? As the word suggests, it's a bloody dead end. Personally, I think it's better to end things before you even start a new phase.

I'm having a fucking bad week because people who deliberately blow things out of proportion really do exist. Your grandma wasn't lying to you about that. To put the icing on the cake, I've been having some shitload of bad karma that involves meeting walking contradictions, people who just HAVE to have the last say and people who just wants you to ask them anything so they can say "no" in your face.

Gimme a break y'all. I'm not your fucking middleman/miss please-hear-me-out-cos-XYZ-is-giving-me-a-shitty-time-again. If you're unaware, I have my own fucking problems to deal with. The whole world doesn't revolve around you. Your problems aren't of utmost importance. Maybe what you can do is take a step back and reflect on why this is happening to you and stop blaming everyone but yourself.
People who only know how blame others but not themselves deserve to be shot dead with an M16. Remember that each time you point your punypudgyfinger at someone else, the 3 friends of your punypudgyfinger are pointing back at you.

PS: Swan+3sha, I'm not refering to you guys.